Changing your life
QUESTION: Masters, I met a man who lives on the other side of the world. This made me realize many things about my life, myself and my fears. After years of wrong choices, lack of self-love and losing my faith in men and relationships I finally found someone who could be good for me and a great, equal partner too. I wasn’t anymore sure if someone like that could exist. I also feel that in the country where I currently live, I’m not ever going to find the right kind of partner or be able to fulfill my long term wishes of having a loving relationship and a family of my own. What am I to do? ~Karin, Finland
ANSWER: You must go into your heart and ask: What do I feel about this situation? What is it I really feel I want to do? You have opened yourself to self-love; let that love direct your future. The first thing you should remember is that as a soul you are all-powerful and can create, and then manifest, that which you desire. You have already started this process by bringing this wonderful man into your life to shoot down all your fears concerning men and relationships.
You chastise yourself for “wrong” decisions. None were truly wrong; they were choices that came to you so you could see what did not work well in your life. The men you met were examples of the kind that would not fulfill you. The realizations you have reached from your past experiences let you now outline exactly what you want from here on out.
Rule one: you have total freedom of choice to choose every aspect of your life. No one can tell you what to do; they can try, but you have the final decision on whether to agree or not. Rule two: nothing is final or absolute in your life’s journey. If a man doesn’t continue to satisfy your needs, get a new one; if a place doesn’t feel right, move; if everything starts to get negative and fearful, stop and see the positive side and move into it. Rule three: see rule one. The choice is always yours.